At Jewish Newport
Yom Kippur, 2019
Edited by Beth Ginsburg Levine
Where will we be tomorrow?
[a video is at https://youtu.be/qwVJ7FWc4rQ]
At Touro Synagogue in Newport, Rhode Island, we arrived to candlelight supplemented by electric sconces, giving an orange aura. We seemed transported to a different place and time. Rabbi Marc Mandel introduced Kol Nidre with a few words about tomorrow,
“There is a story that you might have heard about a pilot who makes an announcement during a flight, ‘Ladies and gentlemen, I have good news and bad news. The good news is we are making good time. The bad news is we were lost.’
‘This can be a metaphor for our lives today in the 21st-century. We are making great time. Everything is moving so quickly. Today, when you wake up in the morning, you can purchase anything you want on Amazon and have it in your hands by noon. Our connections to the internet and the world are speeding up. We’re going from 3G to 4G to 5G. But do we know where we are going or are we lost?
“Someone once said, ‘If you don’t know where you are going, any road will take you there.’ We’re going on all these different roads but we’re not sure in which direction we are headed.
‘One day a year, on Yom Kippur, we come to our senses and we slow down. Recently I’ve been reading the biography of Steve Jobs, the CEO of Apple who reinvented the computer, the cell phone and music, by Walter Isaacson, who also wrote biographies of Albert Einstein and Henry Kissinger.
‘In Job’s biography, Isaacson has a chapter called Think Different. This, as you might recall, was the advertising slogan that Steve Jobs approved for Apple. This advertising campaign didn’t show computers and didn’t talk about processor speed or memory. It wasn’t about computers.It was about the creative things people can do by doing things in a different way. That is really what Yom Kippur is about, one day a year we think differently. No lunch meetings, no running around, no business meetings, but we think about how we can do things differently for the new year.
‘It’s a powerful day. That’s why the Talmud says that Yom Kippur is really a happy day not a mournful day, because it celebrates the potential of human creativity.
‘Someone said, “You don’t have to know where you are to be there, but it is helpful to know where you are if you wish to be someplace else.” On Yom Kippur we declare that we want to be someplace else. We want to think different and be creative with our lives. This year let us strive to enhance Yom Kippur, to think different, and to rejoice in our new life’s direction. May we all be inscribed in the Book of Life.”
After Kol Nidre, the overhead lights came on and the auro was no more. Were we still in the same place?
After Ko Nidre, I visited the synagogue wing where Jackie Mandel was leading junior congregation. She sat with the children in a circle. She told the children that they were here to learn as much as possible about Judaism so they could teach their children. This resonated with the children who glimpsed the future and imagined being parents. The children had been present when the Torahs were removed from the ark, and she reminded them that Rabbi Mandel said they were welcome in shul anytime. Then an important question popped out, “When are the snacks?”
The next day, Rabbi Mandel introduced Yizkor with three thoughts about people to remember, the early founders of Touro who have no one to say Yizkor for them, the Yom Kippur War’s fallen soldiers and Holocaust victims who have no one to say Yizkor for them and they have no burial place to visit them. He complimented Saul Woythaler for reading the names of the Touro founders, and told us that it was appropriate for our historic community to take a broad approach during Yizkor. At his request, I then read about Dolhinev, Belarus,
Remembering the Jewish Community of Dolhinev
“Dolhinev, Belarus was in the Vilna District, Poland, between the first and second World Wars.
“By 1667 there was an organized Jewish community of 485. In 1792, it became part of Russia. During the nineteenth century Jews had concessions and also went into trade, exporting grain flax and fruit through Danzig. There were anti-Jewish riots in the 1880s.
“During the late 19th and early 20th centuries, many Jews left. After World War I Dolhinov was near the border with the Soviet Union. This prevented trade, making economic conditions difficult. The thirties brought the depression and an increasingly anti-Jewish Polish government.
“Nachum Lankin recalled in the Dolhinev Yizkor book, ‘A Yiddische Folkbank was established. A volunteer Bikkur Cholim committee visited the sick. A volunteer, Linat Hatzedek, arranged places to stay for poor visitors to the town. Achnasat Kala accepted donations for poor brides' dowries. A Hesed Shel Emet was established by Hevreh Kadisha to take care of the burials and to support the family members.
‘A few days before Passover, there was a committee that contained young women and men who would go to all the homes to collect money for Passover. They called it The Flower of Passover. For this they also received money from the town's residents who now lived in the US. Many families were helped by this organization. Many times, the mara d'atra [rabbi] distributed the money, and it would be done secretly, so that the families wouldn't be embarrassed about receiving donations. These missions were all done voluntarily without the backing of any of the other town's institutions.’
“The town was occupied by the Russians in Sept 1939 and organized Jewish life ended.The Germans arrived at the end of June 1941. In September the Rabbi and 18 other men were murdered. A ghetto was set up on March 3, 1942. The Jewish community was destroyed in three incidents. On March 28, 1942, 1500 Jews were shot in the market square. According to Zelig Dimmishtein, who was just a child and had not been present,
‘When [I] got to Dolhinov [after the first shechita] the snow on the ground was not white - it was red from Yiddishe blood from when they killed out everyone the day before. The streets were empty. That evening was Pesach. They locked up the windows and they recited the Haggadah. The next morning they went out and dug mass graves to bury the dead.
‘Every year since then I sit on Pesach and read the Haggadah - Ilu lo yotzianu miMitzraim - had You not taken us out of Egypt... what was that??!! Absolutely nothing. When I compare Yitziat Mitzrayim to what we went through in Europe - Mitzrayim was nothing!!’
‘On May 5th, 1200 more were murdered and finally on May 22 the third shechita- the remaining three hundred perished.
‘Among the few who escaped was Moshe Furman. Moshe could not save his 25 year old wife Henia and their daughter Rakhel, who was not even one year old, and his wife’s parents, Shimon Kusinitz and his wife Sara, maiden name Berkovitz. Before the first Shekhita, he found them a hiding place with a Polish noblewoman, but during the second shechita, their hiding place in the ghetto was discovered. Moshe’s father-in-law Shimon Kusinitz, was a brother of CJI members Rita Slom’s grandmother, Dora Kusinitz Adelson, and of Aaron Ginsburg’s grandmother, Dvorshe Kusinitz Ginsburg.
‘Moshe Furman later met a woman in Minsk with a child. They married and later made their way to Palestine on the ship Exodus.”
After services, Rabbi Lowell Weiss mentioned a woman who had moved from the North Shore of Boston to Dartmouth and who was arranging for the translation of a Yizkor book for a town in Poland, where his wife Pattys’ family was from. A light lit up, “Do you mean Carol Marlin?” He did! The town was Kurov, Poland. Carol has moved around a lot. Her father owned Simon Plumbing in Fall River. She knows more about my Fall River families than I, both on the Pokross side and on Kusinitz (Maury) side.
Jewish Newport looks forward to being with you in the coming year and sharing with you as you think, think different and remember.
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